• Cover vom Bettgeflüster Arbeitsbuch für Dirty Talk auf Deutsch mit Ja/Nein-Sprechblasen und Kussszenen.
  • Doppelseite aus Bettgeflüster: zwei Großväter im Bett, daneben eine Figur beim Sexting – Dirty Talk Deutsch lernen mit Humor.
  • Illustration aus dem Erotik-Sprachführer Deutsch: queeres Paar zwischen Pride-Flaggen und vielfältigen Geschlechtersymbolen.
  • Sprechblasen, Umarmungen und ein QR-Code – Bettgeflüster zeigt, wie Dirty Talk auf Deutsch inklusiv und sexy sein kann.
  • Rückseite vom Bettgeflüster Arbeitsbuch mit QR-Code, ISBN und Zitaten wie “Daddy” – dein Erotik-Sprachführer auf Deutsch.
  • Doppelseite aus dem Bettgeflüster Arbeitsbuch: Figuren nach dem Duschen und beim Sexten - Dirty Talk auf Deutsch üben.
  • Queere Figuren kuscheln zwischen Pride-Flaggen und Gender-Symbolen – aus dem Erotik-Sprachführer Deutsch Bettgeflüster.
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Workbook

Bettgeflüster: Dirty Talk auf Deutsch

Bettgeflüster: Dirty Talk auf Deutsch

Written by Mercedes von Kulessa Illustrated by Rory Midhani

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🔥 Es wird heiß... but then you switch to English? 🫦

By Mercedes von Kulessa, illustrated by Rory Midhani

Bettgeflüster is a lovingly illustrated workbook for Dirty Talk auf Deutsch—a playful, language-conscious introduction to pillow talk, sexting, consent, and nicknames that celebrates queer joy and bedroom diversity.

Written by Mercedes von Kulessa (she/dey), a language teacher and founder of QUEER_gesprochen?!, and illustrated by Rory Midhani, this book brings queer erotic expression beyond the binary and into your bedroom (or classroom!).

Whether you're learning German, teaching it, or just want to have more fun sexting in your native language, Bettgeflüster offers practical vocabulary, conversation starters, and playful exercises for hot, consensual connection.

What’s inside:

🫦 A gentle intro to consent, nicknames & sexting
🧠 Reflective exercises & language games
🏳️‍🌈 Illustrations of queer, trans*, and nonbinary characters
🗣️ Chapters on body parts, honorifics, and kinks
✍️ Plenty of space for your own words, phrases & fantasies
🤳 Sexting suggestions to heat things up

Product Details

  • Language: German
  • Format: 21 A5 pages, softcover
  • Contents: Text, exercises, and full-color illustrations
  • Printed: in Berlin on FSC-certified recycled paper
  • CO₂ Footprint: 0.05 kg CO₂e per book, fully offset through reforestation and ocean protection projects by our printer

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Pair Bettgeflüster with the workbook Einfach Gendern! to explore inclusive German language together. Our Workbook Bundle is perfect for anyone who wants to enjoy language with more intention and joy.

Zum BundleZum Einfach Gendern!

Materials

The workbooks are printed on 100% recycled, FSC-certified paper.

Pollution footprint

We aim for the smallest possible footprint from our products' production, transport, and consumption. 

Producing each workbook emits about 0,05 kg CO2e, which our supplier offsets. We share more about this below.

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Shipping + Delivery Times

Where we ship

All of our products ship to the following countries: 

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Many of our products also ship to the 🇺🇸 United States.

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Orders in 🇩🇪 Germany over €50 ship free.

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Fulfilment times

Puzzles are fulfilled within 5 business days; all other products are usually fulfilled within one business day. 

Delivery times

Shipments are usually delivered within 🇩🇪 Germany within 1 week after shipment, and within 🇪🇺 the EEA 2 weeks after shipment. 

Tracked shipments to 🇺🇸 the US can take up to 15 days for delivery after shipment. Untracked shipments to 🇺🇸 the US can take up to 45 days for delivery after shipment. It's a long boat ride, thanks for your patience! 🚣

Dimensions

A5 (148 x 210mm)

Good to know

The workbook contains illustrated sexual content and is for ages 16+.

For the E-Book: one download per order. Copying, distributing, printing, or otherwise sharing the E-Book is not permitted.

Bettgeflüster FAQs

Who is this workbook for?

For anyone curious about intimacy, erotic language, and self-expression—whether solo, in a relationship, or in the classroom. It’s especially helpful for queer folks and language learners.

Is the book sex-positive and inclusive?

Absolutely! The team behind Bettgeflüster is queer themselves and takes an intersectional, language-conscious approach using neopronouns, gender asterisks, and diverse illustrations.

What if I’m not (yet) a Dirty Talk pro?

Then you’re in exactly the right place. This Dirty Talk workbook is designed for people who want to explore, experiment, and develop their own style—with confidence, curiosity, and consent.

Are there content warnings?

Yes. Some chapters include warnings for degrading language or kink-related content. You decide which sections you want to explore.

How sustainable is the production?

Printed in Berlin on 100% recycled paper. Each workbook generates around 0.05 kg of CO₂e, which is fully offset by our printer via certified ClimatePartner projects. You can learn more about our supply chain here.

Porträt von Mercedes von Kulessa, vor einem unscharfen Hintergrund im Freien. Sie hat helle Haut und rosa Haare und lächelt.

About the Author

When Mercedes (dey/she) isn't writing guidebooks for sexual conversations, dey teach German as a foreign language.

As the founder of QUEER_gesprochen?!, she thinks a lot about how to formulate language in a gender-neutral and diversity-sensitive way. Dey offer individual and group courses for language learners as well as teachers, and has also developed teaching materials on the topic of gender-neutral language.

She also wrote our workbook on gendergerechtes Deutch, Einfach Gendern!

Photo Credit: Ismini Xanthou

A selfie by the artist Rory Midhani. He's wearing a white collared shirt, thin black glasses, and has a moustache.

About the Illustrator

Painter & illustrator Rory Midhani (he/him) makes artwork about queer and trans people living their lives and loving it. He creates mixed-media pieces, paintings, and drawings all which playfully celebrate the lives of the queer community. 

He also designed our bestselling Club of Queens playing cards, our LGBTQIAUFO Puzzle, and our Nip Nip Hooray! Top Surgery greeting cards.

Photo Credit: Rory Midhani

Customer Reviews

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Nadine Lolu

The zine "Bettgeflüster" impresses with clear explanations and great illustrations that convey complex topics in an understandable and appealing way. You can learn a lot from it and gain new perspectives, which makes it a recommended read.
Spice up your life - in german!

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Annalena Baasch
Offen ist sexy

DE: Egal ob Muttersprachler*in oder nicht, dieses Buch liefert tolle Ideen, wie man im Bett (und außerhalb) besser kommunizieren kann. Dabei geht es nicht nur um Begriffe für Handlungen und Körperteile, sondern auch darum, wie man Wertschätzungen ausdrückt und Grenzen aufzeigt. Also um etwas, worüber sich jede*r mal Gedanken machen sollte. Dass das auch schön sein kann, zeigt dieses kleine Buch ganz wunderbar. Werde ich definitiv weiter empfehlen!

ENG: Whether you are a german native speaker or not, this book provides great ideas and inspiration on how to communicate better in bed (and out of it). It's not just about terms for specific acts and body parts, but also about how to show appreciation and express/confirm boundaries. Basically, a topic everyone should spend some time thinking about. This little book shows that doing so doesn't have to be a core, but can indeed be beautiful and people may have fun while doing so. I will definitely further recommend the book!

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Anne
Cute, unique, inclusive

ENG: This cute little zine is a wonderful inspiration for non-native speakers to make use of the german language when it comes to pillow talk – with an emphasis on sex-positivity and inclusion. Native speakers could find this little gem interesting too in case they need little nudge thinking and talking about what turns them on and what doesn't.
The illustrations are really charming and celebrate human sexuality and different gender expressions.

DEU: Dieses niedliche kleine Heft ist eine wunderbare Inspiration für Nicht-Muttersprachler, Deutsch beim Bettgeflüster auszuprobieren - mit dem Schwerpunkt auf Sex-Positivity und Inklusion. Auch für Muttersprachler könnte dieses kleine Juwel interessant sein, falls sie einen kleinen Anstoß brauchen, um darüber nachzudenken (und zu sprechen), was sie anmacht und was nicht.
Die Illustrationen sind superniedlich und feiern menschliche Sexualität und die unterschiedlichen Ausdrücke von Gender und Identität.