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My Queer Relations - Queer Relationship Healing Workbook
My Queer Relations - Queer Relationship Healing Workbook
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My Queer Relations is a queer relationship healing workbook designed to help LGBTQ+ folks explore how trauma shapes connection, and learn practices to heal, rebuild trust, and nurture belonging.
Created by Elia diane Fushi Bekene (Care), the artist behind the Ancestral Healing Tarot Deck, this workbook blends somatic exercises, reflection prompts, and radical care frameworks to support deep healing and resilience.
📗 65 A5 pages of guided practices
🩵 Focus on trauma recovery and relationship care
✊ Grounded in decolonial, social justice, and queer frameworks
♻️ Printed in Berlin on recycled paper
Use My Queer Relations as a companion for self-work, in therapy, or with partners and communities to create connections rooted in dignity, safety, and joy.
FAQs
What is My Queer Relations?
It’s a queer relationship healing workbook offering somatic practices and reflections for trauma recovery and building healthy, connected relationships.
How many pages does it have?
It includes 65 A5 pages, easy to navigate for both individual and group work.
What language is the workbook in?
The workbook is written in English.
Where is it printed and how sustainable is it?
Printed in Berlin on recycled paper with eco-friendly inks, supporting sustainable publishing practices. More about our supply chain here.
Who is the author?
Created by Care (Elia diane Fushi Bekene), a Black trans non-binary artist and somatic practitioner known for the Ancestral Healing Tarot Deck.

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Materials
The workbooks are printed on 100% recycled, FSC-certified paper.
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Orders in 🇩🇪 Germany over €50 ship free.
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Puzzles are fulfilled within 5 business days; all other products are usually fulfilled within one business day.
Delivery times
Shipments are usually delivered within 🇩🇪 Germany within 1 week after shipment, and within 🇪🇺 the EEA 2 weeks after shipment.
Dimensions
A5 (148 x 210mm)
Good to know
For the E-Book: one download per order. Copying, distributing, printing, or otherwise sharing the e-book is not permitted.

About the Author
Care (they/them) is a light-skinned Black trans non binary abolitionist somatic practitioner, artist & doula who works on re-membering embodied experiences of awe, connection, miracles & care. Their work blooms at the intersection of Black interiority, somatic memory and queer intimacies.
Always reflecting on their longing for home and belonging, they create rituals & ceremonies as portals through which displaced people can step into a healing, imaginative space unburdened by colonialism's many violences. Their practice draws from ancestral knowledge and seeks to re-enact and/or recreate rituals. Their practice is grounded in an intimate relationship with the land, ancestors, Spirit, the Elements & the more than human.
Care studies, professionally practices and teaches astrology, tarot, Reiki, hypnosis, somatics, Transformative Justice and doula work in Berlin, Germany. They are the creator of the radio show called The Somatics of Care hosted by Refuge Worldwide and the creator of the Ancestral Healing Tarot Deck.
Photo Credit: Elia diane Fushi Bekene (Care)
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