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Bettgeflüster: Pillow Talk auf Deutsch

Bettgeflüster: Pillow Talk auf Deutsch

Written by Mercedes von Kulessa Illustrated by Rory Midhani


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You're in bed with your cutie, it's getting hot and sexy, and you're speaking... only in English?

Mercedes (she/dey) from QUEER_gesprochen?! teaches courses and develops materials for teaching gender-neutral and diversity-sensitive German. She knew German could be sexy, but couldn't find any good guides - so dey decided to write one! This workbook gives you helpful suggestions, examples and a few exercises to improve your pillow talk in German.

An open page of the workbook Bettgeflüster, illustrated by Rory Midhani. On the left page are gay grandpas talking in bed, and on the right is someone sexting on a phone.

Front view of the middle page from Bettgeflüster published by Polar Embassy. It shows cute characters coming out the shower and texting, along with suggestions for texting. On the other side is a character looking in the mirror.

Close up of page from Bettgeflüster Workbook showing cute queer characters snuggling, inclusive pride flags, and a spectrum of gender pairing symbols.

  • How many pages?

    21 pages

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  • Printed in Berlin on recycled paper

    Support your local printer, baby!

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The workbooks are printed on 100% recycled, FSC-certified paper.

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We aim for the smallest possible footprint from our products' production, transport, and consumption. 

Producing each workbook emits about XX kg CO2e, which our supplier offsets. We share more about this below.


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We ship to Germany, Austria, Switzerland, France, the Netherlands, Belgium, and Luxembourg. Orders in the EU over €50 ship free.


A5 (148 x 210mm)

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The workbook contains illustrated sexual content and is for ages 16+.

One download per order. Copying, distributing, printing, or otherwise sharing is not permitted.

Porträt von Mercedes von Kulessa, vor einem unscharfen Hintergrund im Freien. Sie hat helle Haut und rosa Haare und lächelt.

About the Author

When Mercedes (dey/she) isn't writing guidebooks for sexual conversations, dey teach German as a foreign language.

As the founder of QUEER_gesprochen?!, she thinks a lot about how to formulate language in a gender-neutral and diversity-sensitive way. Dey offer individual and group courses for language learners as well as teachers, and has also developed teaching materials on the topic of gender-neutral language. The current offer can be found at

About the Illustrator

Painter & illustrator Rory Midhani makes artwork about queer and trans people living their lives and loving it. He creates mixed-media pieces, paintings, and drawings all which playfully celebrate the lives of the queer community.  ‬

He also designed our Playing Cards and a Puzzle for us.